c.o.L.D.F.i.s.H : April 2004
Thursday, April 29, 2004


I always love NY... I love the crowded, love the athmosphere, love the environment, love the-city-never-sleep thing, love all the never-smile-newyorkers, love the fashion, love china-townnya, love soHo, love nolita, love greenwich village, love brooklyn, love downtown-uptown, love smua nya .... smua smua smua... NY took my heart away since the 1st time I came there and it was a decade ago...

Everytime I watched movie took place in NY, most of 'em pasti gue suka banget.... and I just watched "13 going on 30" check-here , "Hell-Boy" check-here and "Laws of Attraction" check-here which is taken place di NY... adeuuhh.... bikin makin jatuh cinta ama NY ... I don't know why.... and don't ask me!! So yeah... for you who have chance to come to NY... You'll love it !! I guarantee that...
posted by Cha-- @ 11:50 PM 
Wednesday, April 28, 2004
Adeuhh... udah bbrp hari ga posting... gara2 (pura2) sibuk ama Final Test ... *sigh* nasib jadi anak sekolahan... hehehehehe gue mo post sesuatu nii... worth to read banget...

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NASEHAT UNTUK WANITA (yet also for PRIA!!!)


Untuk membentuk bibir yang menawan, ucapkan kata-kata kebaikan.

Untuk mendapatkan mata yang indah,carilah kebaikan pada setiap orang yang anda jumpai.

Untuk mendapatkan bentuk badan yang langsing, berbagilah makanan dengan mereka yang kelaparan.

Untuk mendapatkan rambut yang indah, mintalah seorang anak kecil untuk menyisirnya dengan jemarinya setiap hari.

Untuk mendapatkan sikap tubuh yang indah, berjalanlah dengan segala Ilmu pengetahuan, dan anda tidak akan pernah berjalan sendirian.

Manusia, jauh melebihi segala ciptaan lain, perlu senantiasa berubah, diperbaharui, dibentuk kembali, dan diampuni.

Jadi, jangan pernah kucilkan seseorang dari hati anda. Apabila anda sudah melakukan semuanya itu, ingatlah senantiasa, jika suatu ketika anda membutuhkan pertolongan, akan senantiasa ada tangan terulur. Dan dengan bertambahnya usia anda, anda akan semakin mensyukuri telah diberi dua tangan, satu untuk menolong diri anda sendiri, dan satu lagi untuk menolong orang lain.

Kecantikan wanita bukan terletak pada pakaian yang dikenakannya,bukan pada bentuk tubuhnya, atau cara dia menyisir rambutnya. Kecantikan wanita terdapat pada matanya, cara dia memandang dunia. Karena di matanyalah terletak gerbang menuju kesetiap hati manusia, dimana cinta dapat berkembang. Kecantikan wanita, bukan pada kehalusan wajahnya, tetapi kecantikan yang murni, terpancar pada jiwanya, yang dengan penuh kasih memberikan perhatian dan cinta yang dia berikan dan kecantikan itu akan tumbuh sepanjang waktu.

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*sigh* bener2 membuat gue terharu, disaat akhir2 ini penampilan fisik merupakan salah satu syarat utama dlm sgala hal .... whaddaya think???
posted by Cha-- @ 1:00 AM 
Saturday, April 24, 2004
2 BOXES ...


Ada di tanganku dua buah kotak yang telah Tuhan berikan padaku untuk dijaga. Kata-Nya, "Masukkan semua penderitaanmu ke dalam kotak yang berwarna hitam. Dan masukkan semua kebahagiaanmu ke dalam kotak yang berwarna emas."

Aku melakukan apa yang Tuhan katakan. Setiap kali mengalami kesedihan maka aku letakkan ia ke dalam kotak hitam. Sebaliknya ketika bergembira maka aku letakkan kegembiraanku dalam kotakberwarna emas.

Tapi anehnya, semakin hari kotak berwarna emas semakin bertambah berat. Sedangkan kotak berwarna hitam tetap saja ringan seperti semula.

Dengan penuh rasa penasaran, aku membuka kotak berwarna hitam. Kini aku tahu jawabannya. Aku melihat ada lubang besar di dasar kotak berwarna hitam itu, sehingga semua penderitaan yang aku masukkan ke sana selalu jatuh keluar.

Aku tunjukkan lubang itu pada Tuhan dan bertanya, "Kemanakah perginya semua penderitaanku?" Tuhan tersenyum hangat padaku. "AnakKu, semua penderitaanmu berada padaKu."

Aku bertanya kembali, "Tuhan, mengapa Engkau memberikan dua buah kotak, kotak emas dan kotak hitam yang berlubang?" "AnakKu, kotak emas Kuberikanagar kau senantiasa menghitung rahmat yang Aku berikan padamu, sedangkan kotak hitam Kuberikan agar kau melupakan penderitaanmu."

Ingat-ingatlah semua kebahagiaanmu agar kau senantiasa merasakan kebahagiaan. Campakkan penderitaanmu agar kau melupakannya.
posted by Cha-- @ 6:04 PM 
Friday, April 23, 2004
SOME THOUGHTS FOR YOU UN-MARRIED PEOPLE (yet)

"Kapan nikah????"

"Udahhh, jangan milih2 laaah... "

"Jangan lama2 apa sih yg dipikirinn ... "

"Jangan sekolah & karier aja yg jd prioritas..."

huhmm kalimat2 tersebut diatas adalah kalimat yg paling NORAK yg paling sering di dengar kalo gue pulang ke Jakarta.... huhmmm dan masih banyak kalimat2 senada yg dikeluarkan orang2 di sekitar kita kepada kita yg pd belum married ini....

KAPAN NIKAH?
--- mana gue tau!! emangnya gue tau apa yg akan terjadi atas gue di masa dpn gue??? lagian kalo utk saat ini gue lg pengen sendiri kenapa?? what's wrong for being single anyway??? ---

UDAHHH, JANGAN MILIH2 LAAAH...
--- Kok jangan milih2 sih??? memilih itu PENTING !!! ... pada saat gue memilih utk menikah utk lawan jenis & bukan ama sesama jenis berarti gue udah melakukan suatu pemilihan.... pada saat gue utk memutuskan menikah dgn pria A dan bukan ama pria B, itu jg udah berarti gue udah melakukan suatu pemilihan... pada saat gue ga mo pacaran ama yg berbeda kepercayaan juga udah merupakan suatu pilihan buat gue... jadi.... SIAPA BILANG JANGAN MILIH2 ???

JANGAN LAMA2 APA SIH YG DIPIKIRINN...
--- lah !! emang gue si Molly anjing jantan tetangga gue yg begitu liat anjing betina gue lgs di kejar2 saat itu juga !!! Dua pribadi yg berbeda membutuhkan waktu utk mengenal satu sama lain... lebih baik menyisihkan waktu lebih lama di waktu pendekatan (or pacaran) dr pd mengambil keputusan gegabah dgn mengambil resiko seumur idup.... kan mau nya ever-lasting love...

JANGAN SEKOLAH & KARIER AJA YG JD PRIORITAS...
--- Gue sekolah utk mendapatkan karier yg sepadan dgn derajat akademis sekolah gue... spy nantinya gue bisa udah ada modal pd saat nikah, ga masih minta2 ama ortu... emangnya orang nikah trus abis itu stop ampe situ idupnya?? emangnya ga mikir gmn nanti idup bedua? emangnya ga mikir byr listrik, byr telpon, beli bensin... idup udah makin complicated dong.... emangnya uang runtuh dr langit ??? perlu ada simpenan kan????


huhmmmhhmmm

Gue bukannya gue ga mo nikah.... gue pengen !!!! tp gue pengen menikah pd saat gue ketemu ama seseorang pribadi yg jg membutuhkan gue menemani dia (scr spritiual & material) di hari2nya dia... pd saat kita bedua ngerasa kita tuh soul-mate... pd saat kita bedua bener2 saling menyayangi & butuh disayangi... dan smua nya itu hanya bisa di tentuin ama Tuhan... karna gue yakin... SEGALA SESUATU INDAH PD WAKTUNYA !!!
posted by Cha-- @ 7:14 PM 
Wednesday, April 21, 2004
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY SISTER ...

Today (waktu Jakarta) is my-only-one sister bday (Apr 22nd)... Aseli jd kangen banget ama dia... And suddenly gue jd mellow ginih..... huhuhuhuhu


"as time goes by and we get older, it seems that the best things in life grow more precious than ever... like you... and all that it means to have you for a sister..."



Skrg dia ultah lg tugas di Batam... udah 2 taun berturut2 dia ultah jauh dr ortu... ehehehhe kasian jg... tp yah apa boleh buat... namanya jg pegawai teladan Delloite & Touche...

I remember the ol'time, when we both still in Jakarta... we spend most of our time together, dia orang yg paling cepet bikin gue ketawa (abis anaknya super-duper garing!), gampang bikin gue marah2 tp gampang lagi baek2in gue lagi... paling ngerti-in gue banget... kemana2 pasti ikut ngintilin gue... smua temen2 gue jd temennya dia... T A P I jangan coba2 colek ni anak kalo darting (alias darah tinggi) nya kumat... huhmmm jgn coba2 deh (ampe ga berani comment)... but still no matter how cranky she is she still my darling sister.... :=)

Gue jd inget dulu... gue + Sara (adek gue ini) + Ina & Agnes (sohib2 gue) lg kumpul ngobrol2 ber-empat-an... trus obrolannya came up ama nama adek gue ini... nama lengkapnya kan Sara Kardina, trus si Agnes nanya... "kok Kardina sih? emang Kardina tuh nama dr mana asalnya?" ... trus gue dgn berbaik hati lgs menjelaskan dong... "Iyaa.. karna si Sara lahir nya bln April tgl 22, kan itu stlh peringatan hari Ibu Kartini tuh... makanya bokap gue kasih nama Kardina... soalnya kan Kardina itu adeknya Kartini..." ... si Ina yg dr td diyem & anteng lgs nyeletuk... "berarti elu Kartini dong ca?" ... *terjadi kehehingan sejenak* ... huhmmm AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA *ngakak gila2an* aseli pd saat itu... kita smua langsung ketawa gila2an... apaan sih si Ina nih... minta di gamparin jg yah !!! yah.. itu lah seputar cerita ttg adek cewe gue satu2nya ini....

Wish you all the best my sister...
posted by Cha-- @ 11:36 PM 
Tuesday, April 20, 2004
AKHIRNYA

Wah gue rada seneng nih ... gara2nya... cell-phn gue udah bisa kirim2an sms ke cell-phn yg pake Satelindo di Jakarta... soalnya selama ini cell-phn gue disini (pake T-Mobile nih...) cuma bisa sms2an ke Jakarta ama yg pake Telkomsel aja.... sementara... ama yg pake Satelindo kan jg pengen kirimin2an sms ... *wink*

yah intinya... senang!!! akhirnya bisa memulai kembali *ehem* .... MEMULAI KEMBALI APA CHA?!!

Summer udah tercium bau2nya nih... udara di Chicago udah mulai panas.... sempet yg panas buanget tiba2... trus anginnya jg panas... ampe2 sumuk banget & kayak sesek napas... tp ntar tiba2 anginnya berubah jd dingin lagi... hihhihi ini sih alamat bikin gue sakit aja dehhhhhhh !!!

OK deh... udah mo ampir jam 2 pagi... i gotta go to bed now... harus bangun jam 7 pagi ... darn !!! -ciao-
posted by Cha-- @ 1:42 AM 
Monday, April 19, 2004
MARCH PERSONALITY

I know it's april now... but since i was born in march.... jd gapapa dong gue mo nya membahas ttg bulan ultah gue aja... hehehehe ntar tiap awal bulan gue update deh personality each month... *janji* okay, here we go!

Attractive personality.
Affectionate.
Shy and reserved.
Secretive.
Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic.
Love peace and serenity.
Sensitive to others.
Easily angered.
Trustworthy.
Appreciative and returns kindness.
Observant and assess others.
Revengeful.
Loves to dream and fantasize.
Loves to travelling.
Loves attention.
Hasty decisions in choosing partners.
Loves home decors.
Musically talented.
Loves special things.
Moody.


huhmmm whaddaya think guys??? It's so me huh? :D
posted by Cha-- @ 10:21 AM 
Sunday, April 18, 2004
This is a thought for you who read my blog....

Allah menciptakan manusia berpasangan.
Ada pria dan ada wanita.
Ada yg cakep dan ada yg jelek.
Yang cakep yg ngetik di blog ini.
Yang jelek yg baca blog ini.
Kita harus tabah menerimanya.... *kabur*

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA *peace*
posted by Cha-- @ 4:35 PM 
MY DAILY BREAD...

Call me whatever... but I just read my bible daily bread (my routine thingy before I go to bed) ... and I got this:

-- "For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their lawless deeds... I will remember no more". -- Hebr 8:12

Sometimes, in our life, we could never forget someone else mistakes they've done to us... ok.. like me... I'm kindda a might-forgive-person but I will never forget what they've done to me... suddenly... I remembered someone who used to be someone who closed enough to me (at that time...) ... the things came fast... and gone like the wind... I couldn't find out what did I do that made him pulled away his heart from me.... no explanation *sigh* ... and since life goes on, I tried hard to forgive what he's done to me... but I just can't....

And since I got that verse from Hebr 8:12, I just suddenly reminded by GOD that even He will remember no more our sins.... *sigh* How come it's hard for me to forgive him?? Now it's about time for me to forgive him...

*for you who's in twin-cities*
posted by Cha-- @ 1:01 AM 
Saturday, April 17, 2004
BUSYEEDDDDDDDDD !!!

For the last 2 days sumthin' wrong happened with my blog... gue ga bisa posting... eh ternyata eh ternyata... yg dikarenakan ke bego-an diri gue ndiri yg kurang ati2 di dlm hal meng-copy-paste !!!! *jedut2in pala*

Untungnya ada pahlawanku si Herry (a.k.a. moonblade) yg telah berhasil mengembalikan posisi template blog kesayangan gue ini... hihihih thanks buuaaanget yah her!!!! you're the best daaaaaaaah ... buat Qmal (a.k.a. Kemal Mohsin *diperjelas nih!!*) jg yg udah mbenerin TagBoard gue... di rapihin box2nya, di samain warnanya... huhuhuh makasih maaaaaall ....

Bahagianya gue punya temen yg baik2 & senang menolong temennya yg lg kesusahan ini.. huhuhuhuhu *peluk2 Herry & Qmal*


I watched Kill Bill Vol.2 ... DAN GUE AGAK KECEWA !!!!!! why ??? karna kurang sadis !!! ga ada lagi tebas2an kepala spt yg di Vol.1 yg banyak adegan sadis .... i like the Vol.1 more than Vol.2 yg terlalu banyak cerita bla bla bla & sempet bikin bosen gue di awal2 ceritanya.... and yaaa... spt udah bisa ketebak.. si Bill mati di kung-fu ama si The Bride (a.k.a Black Mamba = Uma Thurman) ... ya gitu deh... agak mengecewakan inti nya... -sigh-
posted by Cha-- @ 4:46 PM 
Friday, April 16, 2004
HOTTIEWOOD FOR SUMMER -slurp-

The most scrumptious men alive will be burning up the big screen - and the charts - this season.

1. Lenny Kravitz -- Album: Baptism, May 18
2. Brad Pitt -- Film: Troy, May 14
3. Vin Diesel -- Film: The Chronicles of Riddick, June 11
4. Jude Law -- Film Sky Captain and The World of Tomorrow, June 25
5. Orlando Bloom -- Film: Troy, May 14
6. Matt Damon -- Film: The Bourne Supremacy, July 23

I wanna watch Troy.... huhuhuhu but for sure... i wanna watch Kill Bill Vol.2 fho'sho'
posted by Cha-- @ 12:22 AM 
Wednesday, April 14, 2004
People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON,or a LIFETIME.

When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

And which one do you think you are as my friend?? :-)
posted by Cha-- @ 8:14 AM 
Tuesday, April 13, 2004
KEGARINGAN DI PAGI HARI

I recvd this email from my friend... and this is killing me... 'coz it's goddam crunchy (*kriuk*) and it's about seputar kampanye pemilu... hihiihi and here we go...

Q : knp demam berdarah marak di jakarta blakangan ini?
A : krn sutiyoso melarang bemo, becak dan sebentar lg bajaj, padahal nyamuk ini cuma takut tiga roda.

Q : knp dlm kampanye PPP selalu rame?
A : krn tiap suami bawa empat istri.

Q : knp ampe kapan pun bulan bintang tak akan menang?
A : krn msh ada matahari.

Q : knp perilaku PDIP sering disamakan dgn perilaku GOLKAR?
A : krn Mega artinya sama dgn Akbar.

Q : Jabatan apa yg paling cocok di duduki oleh Amin Rice?
A : Kepala BULOG.

Q : Dimanakah SBY?
A : Yo mesti ne ndhek Jawa Timur tah.

asli garing yah??? gue aja ampe ga ketawa saking garingnya.... -sigh-
posted by Cha-- @ 8:45 AM 
Monday, April 12, 2004
My presentation was okay... i was so nervous about it... but me & my group was so cool... hahahahha o yeah we're so cool... 'coz we were discussing about "Economics of Sport" which is fun... fun to discuss and to talk about.... three of us (Me, Trudi & Frank) was so relieve after the presentation... now we can concentrate for our final test in the next 2 weeks.... -sigh-


Lookat this picture... i took it just a couple minutes before i went to school.... can you imagine??? i still wear my winter jacket on SPRING TIME??? This is ridiculous... everybody said that spring is come... the weather gettin' better ... you know what??? i called that BULL !!! do you know the temperature here in chicago??? it's approx. below 40º's F (+/- 5º C) everyday now and not to mention the wind!!!! Chicago without the wind it aint Chicago dude!... well yeah... in the beginning of april the weather was awesome... but now??? it's drop again... and it's gettin' me crazy!!! *ggggrrrrr* i can't wait till summer come (even it's not really hot in summer time... buat at least.... it's summer!!) .... i can't wait to wear my flip-flop, my skirts, my tangtop, all my summer stuffs... huhuhuhuhuh oh please summer... please come !!! H U R R Y ... i can't wait to see youuuuuuu *lari2 kecil*
posted by Cha-- @ 11:21 PM 
FINALLY !!!

yak akhirnya saudara2... internet gue kembali up... stlh 2 hari tanpa internet... i was dying... hihihihihi my life incomplete without internet... *Cieeee*

and thank you so much for moonblade *mwah mwah* yg telah membantu nambahin archieve di sisi sblah kanan blog ini... hihihihihihi si doneeh sempet2nya mampir pula ke blog gue... don!! gue add link lu yak.... heheheheheeee

be back after school deh.... mo siap2 buat presentasi ntar mlm nih... wish me luck guys!!! *komat kamit*
posted by Cha-- @ 11:37 AM 
Sunday, April 11, 2004
EASTER DAY

Hari ini i supposed to go to church to celebrate easter... but i couldn't go, since my internet at home didn't work start last nite (crap!) .... and i gotta a lot of research for my monday presentation which is not ready yet.... -sigh- I just couldn't go to church while my minds is somewhere else.... Forgive me My Lord...

So yeah... i went to my school's library wanna use the internet, but yeah... i forgot that today it's easter and the library is closed !!!! OMG ... i was so pissed... where should i go??!! And then i decided to go to public library near my house, but yeah.... you know.... they're also closed... (SOMEBODY KILLED ME PLS !!!)AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I know this is the what i got from my laziness... because i'm such a last minute person ever... -sigh- Now i'm at my friend's house, using their internet to do my research... i gotta finish this crap soon...
posted by Cha-- @ 3:10 PM 
Saturday, April 10, 2004
Holy Saturday

Hari ini hari makan2 sedunia... ada acara ultah Gana Yudono... aseli ribs nya enak skaleeee... gue mbungkus pulang dong spt biasa... hihihihi seru jg ketemu ama anak2 Indonesia yg di Chicago... udah lama ga ketawa2 ....

Jadi inget ketawa2 di Horas ama Ina, Ardo, Niken & Joe ... HAHAHAHAHAAHAHA aseli itu hari menggaring sedunia... smua rebutan menggaring... tp by-the-end yg paling garing sih si Joe... hihihih *peace joe!* Ardo paling semangat dlm acara menggaring, keliatan skali kalo dia tuh ada bakat jadi garing... HAHAHHAHAHAHHA yah tapi memang sih Ina & Niken udah ga ketolongan jg garing nya.... -sigh-

Here below bbrp kegaringan yg telah terjadi:

XXX: Apa persamaan tukang becak ama tukang bakso?
YYY: Sama2 ga jualan sate

XXX: Kenapa motor merknya YAMAHA?
YYY: Krn buatan Jepang.. kalo buatan Arab namanya jadi "YA MAHMUD"

XXX: Naik apa yg seperti dikejar2 burung?
YYY: Naek becak... karena si abang becak duduk diblakang jd penumpangnya berasa dikejar2 burung si abang

XXX: HIJ kependekan dr apa?
YYY: H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

XXX: Telor ayam takutnya ama telor apa?
YYY: Telor asin ... telor asin banyak tattoo nya

XXX: Telor asin takutnya ama telor apa?
YYY: Telor puyuh ... soalnya telor puyuh pake baju ABRI

XXX: Telor puyuh takutnya apa telor apa?
YYY: Telor-toar (*kriuk*)

XXX: Ayam apa yg merasa bersalah?
YYY: Ayam sori (*kriuuuuuuuuuuuuuuk*)

XXX: Kenapa Batman pake topeng?
YYY: Karna dia malu pake celana dalem di luar

HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH udah ah... itu hanya bbrp bagian dr kegaringan yg tjd hari itu.... sisanya gue udah ga inget lagihhh....

Saturday Nite ga kemana2... yg dikarenakan research gue buat presentasi hari senin blm kelar (i didn't do anything actually yet... ) sementara temen2 satu group-project gue udah pd kirim2 email .... adoooooooooohhh
posted by Cha-- @ 9:26 PM 
Friday, April 09, 2004
GOOD FRIDAY !!!

Hari Jumat Agung... ga ke gereja... pusing ama paper & presentasi hari senin... -sigh- saking pusingnya yg ada malah tidur molo seharian.... busred deh !!! ampun2an....

hey guys, just wanna share some info here... TOP 10 Schools of Business in US:

1. Harvard University (MA)
2. Stanford University (CA)
3. University of Pennsylvania (Wharton)
4. MIT (Sloan)
5. Northwestern University - Kellog (IL)
6. Columbia University (NY)
7. Chicago University (IL)
8. University of California - Berkeley (Haas)
9. Dartmouth College - Tucks (NH)
10.University of Michigan - Ann Arbor
posted by Cha-- @ 8:51 PM 
Thursday, April 08, 2004
CLEAN SWEEP

=== he promises you a ring by Christmas. Christmas comes, you get earrings. He tells you he's waiting until you birthday to propose. Candles burn. Gifts are opened. No little black box. He tells you when he gets that job promotion you'll tie the knot. Promoted twice. Nada. There you are, one, two, going on three years into a relationship with what was once the Man of Your Dreams. Time is passing and you feel anxious. And worse, you've turned into someone you can't stand: resentful and bitchy ===

LADIES!! you have two choices here -- wait for his promises to come and go, or take control. Because the biggest thing keeps people in a bad relationship is the fear of UNKNOWN. If you think you're with the wrong person, end it, because you'll never meet the right one if you're stuckin the wrong relationship. Once you make the decision to exit, that's the easy part. But "deciding" what to do and when to do it --- now there's the killer!!

-- i dedicate this for my very good friend --
posted by Cha-- @ 12:38 AM 
Wednesday, April 07, 2004
THIS IS FUNNY !!!

1. What is a Kiss??
---> It's an upper PREPARATION for a lower INVASION that will lead to further PENETRATION with fast ACCELARATION that will build next GENERATION.

2. What men do after sex?
---> 2% eat. 3% smoke cigarettes, 4% take a shower, 5% go to sleep and 86% get up and go back to their wives. (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHA)

3. A couple recently married was happy with the whole thing. He was happy with the hole, and she was happy with the thing (AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA -ngakak-)

4. What is the closest thing to a woman's period?
---> Your SALARY ... It comes once a month, lasts 4 or 5 days, and if it doesn't ome, you are F*CKED !!!

5. What's the difference between a panty and a stage curtain?
---> When you pull down the stage curtain, show is over, but when you pull down the PANTY... IT'S SHOWTIME..

6.Ages of Vag*na:
---> 16 to 19 brand new.
---> 20 to 28 slightly used.
---> 29 to 36 second hand.
---> 37 to 45 subject to repair.
---> 46 to 55 for lubrication.
---> 56 to 60 total wreck.
---> 61 to 70 closed for renovation !!!

7. Women top 5 lies: (from the whitest down)
---> 5. I am virgin.
---> 4. It is so big.
---> 3. I can't do that to my best friend.
---> 2. I won't gain weight after marriage.
---> 1. I am coming! I am coming!
posted by Cha-- @ 8:59 AM 
Tuesday, April 06, 2004
okay... i'd like to start it from the very beginning.... =ehem=

i woke up at 7.30AM and read to go to work... dunno why.. but i felt so sleepy !!! ( i slept 7 hours though.. but still need more... *sigh*) yea... while i prepared to go to work, i talked with my old friend who lives in Wagga Wagga (middle of no where nearby Canberra-Australia) ... his intial is 'GR', and we had a very funny conversation ... (FYI: he used to live in NYC for the last 15 years and currently moves to Wagga Wagga)... anyway... the conversation was like:

GR: how's life's cha....
Me: nut much... slow -sigh-
GR: SLOW?! Whaddaya mean with slow?? life is slow here in Wagga Wagga... and you know what... if i can afford to buy a gun with bullets i'd rather kill my self....
Me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA chill !!!!

And suddenly i thought that i have to be thankful for everyday in my life... life is short & don't make it harder.... ENJOY LIFE !!!

Well yeah... and i started my job.... not too busy... but still since i felt too sleepy today.... almost all my co-worker was like... "Martha... are you okay??? Did u just cry??" --- Whaddahell?!!! --- "Martha, why you look so sleepy??? You don't have enough time to sleep???" .... huhmmm i was like... JUST BECAUSE I'VE SMALL EYES (alias: sipit -red-) DOESN'T MEAN THAT I CRIED !!! OR SO OBVIOUSLY LOOKS LIKE SLEEPY *even i tried hard not to looks like a sleepy person walking in the hall* !!! huuuuuuuuuhhh ....

huhmm and... my "domestic partner" (aka: my-no-commitment-boyfriend) tried to make me laugh... but it didn't work... 'coz i'm just as sleepy as a pig -sigh-

i called my dad (i was trying to make fun though)...

Me: Hi, good morning... may speak to Mr. Manurung?
DAD: Yes, this is he... may i know who's calling?
Me: Yah, i'm calling from the indonesian consulate in chicago....
DAD: Yes mam
Me: I'm calling regarding your daughter who's living here in chicago....
-silent-
Me: HAHAHAHAHAH paaap.. ini CACA.... *ketawa*
DAD: CACA!!! kamu yah senang bikin papi kamu jantungan *dg logat batak kental*

ihihhihihihihiihihihihihihihih sorry dad... miss you though!! *peluk*

On my way back home... i got some news from 'KH', about that Germany-crazy-guy ... hahahahaa he's just crazy.... i missed him... but yeah... doesn't matter anyway huh?!

gotta go to sleep... i need to go to bed early.... -hoaeehmm-
posted by Cha-- @ 11:13 PM 
Monday, April 05, 2004

This is Joseph Tabaluyan (aint he cute?? -slurp-)... He's July & Steve's only son... the most adorable one... I can't barely stop holding him everytime I met him... huhuhuhuhu -gemes sambil cubit2-
posted by Cha-- @ 12:35 PM 
omygossh!!! finally i fixed my shout-box... i'm goddam freakin' depressed ama si doneeh *sigh* aseli gue udah ampe keriting (padahal rambut gue aseli lurus!!) hihihihihi even actually i dont like my frame-shout-box though... tp kalo pake yg non-frame-shout-box error mulu... knapah sih yaah -garuk2-

and also i'm glad a good friend of mine teached me how to upload pictures (norak ga si gua?! BEUUDEUU!!! like i care... hihihihi) mayaan laaah... ya ga Wi ??? *colek Dwi*

I called my mom (around 7AM waktu di Jakarta brarti jam 7PM waktu di Chi'Town), she was about to go ke acara nyobolos pemilu ... hihihihi and like usual... she always brain-wash me with "caca... jangan lupa nanti kamu harus nyoblos Partai !@#!$#!$!#$! -sensor- soalnya kakak DS -sensor- caleg disitu... jadi kamu harus coblos partai itu... jangan lupa kamu jg bilang ama temen2 kamu disana yaa..." AHAHAHHAAHHA aseli my mom is the most funny person in the world... *miss you mom!* ada2 aja si mami mah... it's been such a couple weeks she always said that thingy to me... susah deh emang orang batak.... asas persaudaran molo!! and i thought asas dasar pemilu itu LUBER ... apa udah ganti yaa??? kekekekekekekeeeee

this pemilu thingy is my dad's 1st time experience since he's in air-force for the last approx 40years he never ikut2an pemilu gituh ... and he's kindda excited though... but the most unbelieveable thing happened tuh buat yg pada nyoblos di US (i'm talking about my Chi'Town), masa gue bisa nyoblos lwt mail loh ... hahahaha bener2 udah ga LUBER !!! sejak kapan ada pemilu pake mail sih??? apakah itu termasuk asas LANGSUNG ??? i dont think so... kekekekeke oh well... au'ah... *blaga cuek*

huhmmm

i also talked with my-crazy-lil'sister who always update me with jakarta's thingy... hahahaha and the most spectacular news from her is about BM -sensor- who just got back from Bandung and brought some stuffs for my sis (and for my cousin!!!) ... huhmmm well... kindda weird... but i take that as he-is-nice !!! he just as nice as i remember (remember our ol'time... huhuhuhuhu -mellow-) ah udah ah!! ga usah dibahas.... kakakakkakakaka

btw this is for now... be back later...
posted by Cha-- @ 1:23 AM 
Sunday, April 04, 2004

I just watched this movie (rent it from Blockbuster's). It was on 1953, a time when women's roles were rigidly defined, free-spirited, novice art history professor Katherine Watson (Julia Roberts) begins teaching at the prestigious all-female Wellesley College--which despite its academic reputation, is an environment where success is measured by 'how well' the students marry. Encouraging these women to strive for a more enlightened future, Watson challenges the administration and inspires her students to look beyond the image of what is, and consider the possibilities of what could be--contrary to popular belief.

I like this movie.... really like it... and like usual... i cried... :=)
posted by Cha-- @ 10:24 PM 
DAY LIGHT SAVING!!! huuhuhuhu i was about late to go to church this morning... 'coz when i woke up i saw my clock it was 8:30AM, but since today starting day light saving, so yea... it was actually 9.30AM... and the church worship start at 10AM... goosh!!

After church, I went to BORDERS to return a book (i'm not planning to buy the book anyway from the beginning.. hihihih i just want to borrow it for a week! Thx yoo..) This is what i like living in US, we can borrow stuff (you dont have to buy it) .... nice huh...

huh... gotta go to blockbuster's !!! be back soon... -ciao-
posted by Cha-- @ 9:14 PM 
Saturday, April 03, 2004
OK GUYS !!! This is for your information... since i'm a newbie for this thingy... i'm kindda stress-out because of my goddam shout-box can't work... oh well... somebody gotta help me!!!! even my web-master still working on it... -sigh- so pls... DO NOT LEAVE MSG THRU SHOUT-BOX... and pls come-back soon again... ok ok??!
posted by Cha-- @ 11:10 PM 
This is ridiculous... My shout box fucked-up!! (sebel) kenapa sih nihhhhhhhhhh *manyun*
posted by Cha-- @ 10:12 PM 
AHAAAAAAAAA!! Finally !!! -sigh- Finally I can post some stuff here.... After waiting for such a long time.... Well, sebelumnya, I'd like to say my BIG thanks for Joe *hugs*, he's the person behind my blog's design (he's my webmaster)... hihihihi he's the person who patient enough to fulfilled all my requests.... hihihihihi you know what Joe, I can't make this blog without you!!! (ehem!) and of course not to mention some close friends, such as iNa, Piter, Tis, Oly, Fritz, Ardo, Lita, Lia, Sha2 and many more yg udah kasih advice & kritikan2 ... :D (walaupun kritik2 & masukan2nya cuma bisa nambah gue pusing kepala & nambah2in kerjaan si Joe aja!!! *lirik iNa sambil tendang Piter*) hahaahahhahaha thanks guys!!! still need it though...

And yeah... "coLDFisH"... why coLDFisH ??? Someone gave that nick name to me a couple years go, he said that since i was born as a pisces, i aint sweet enough for a fish and yet i'm such a cold person ever in one relationship.... =hikz= makanya dia kasih nick name coLDFisH ke gue... but actually i'm a warm person though!!! (komporrrrr kali... hahaha) well yeah... since then... i'd like "coLDFisH" thingy though.... jd sering deh nick name ini.... :D

ok lah... ini dulu kata pembukaan buat my new weblog... i'll keep posting... you guys keep stop by and shoot some shit di shout box gue ya!! :D
posted by Cha-- @ 12:26 PM