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Carrie: Let's be honest. Sometimes there is nothing harder in life than being happy for somebody else. Like lottery winners. Or extremely successful people who are 27. And then there's that hell on earth that only your closest friends can inflict on you.
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Samantha: There's two kinds of guys. The ones who hold your hand and the ones that f**k you.
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Carrie: Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back. Maybe, you have to let go of who you were to become who you will be.
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Samantha: Who knows, he's a man. You could lay your p***y on a table right in front of one and still not know what he's thinking.
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Carrie: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.
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Carrie: I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love. And I don't think that love is here in this expensive suite in this lovely hotel in Paris.
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Carrie: When you're young, your whole life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious. You could break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don't leap at all because there's not always someone there to catch you. And in life, there's no safety net. When did it stop being fun and start being scary?
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Carrie: Maybe mistakes are what make our fate... without them what would shape our lives? Maybe if we had never veered off course we wouldn't fall in love, have babies, or be who we are. After all, things change, so do cities, people come into your life and they go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart... and if you're very lucky, a plane ride away.
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Saturday, February 19, 2005
SKIING TIME !!!!!!!!!!
Wow !! It was such a fun thing everrr..... Me & bunch of my friends went skiing to Wilmot Mt. (Milwaukee)... about an-hour from my place... We arrived around 10am, and then all of us prepared for the basic skiing lesson... which was very very very helful for a beginner (LIKE ALL OF US!) and then after that we went up to the hill (with the hanging' chair... it scared me a lot!!!) .... and then.... huhmmm I fell down thousand times.... hurt me ALOT !!! *ugh*
posted by Cha-- @ 10:30 PM
Tuesday, February 15, 2005
Dont lose 90% that you already have ....
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not."
Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive.
More alluring.
More thoughtful.
Richer.
Have greater sex appeal.
And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.
Because no wife or husband is perfect.
Because a spouse will only have 90% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 10%.
Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter.
Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt.
Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.
But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have.
Don't throw away the 90% that you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other.
The storms you have weathered together.
The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple.
The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.
Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.
But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.
But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life!
About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.
Are you like the economy airline
The main message:
If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are is
FIRST CLASS!
posted by Cha-- @ 10:44 PM
Monday, February 14, 2005
Q: What de fuck is Valentine's Day mean???A: NUTHIN' ... NADA ... NUH-UH ...
posted by Cha-- @ 9:52 PM
Friday, February 11, 2005
WHAT WOMEN HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT MEN!!
We always hear the rules from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male. These are our rules: (Please note... these are all numbered 1 ON PURPOSE!)
1. Breasts are for looking at and that is why we do it. Dont try to change that.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat. Youre a big girl. If its up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You dont hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Saturday = sports. Its like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. Thats what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.
1. If you think youre fat, you probably are. Dont ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials
1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colours, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a colour. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say nothing, we will act like nothings wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you dont want an answer to, expect an answer you dont want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really.
1. Dont ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as Sex, Sport, or Cars.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round is a shape.
1. Thank you for reading this; Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight, but did you know men really dont mind that, its like camping.
hihihihih isn't it hilarrious?? I got those things above from my buddy's bullentin board thru friendster... and I think a-smart-funny-intelligent woman should laugh-out-loud when they read about those things... HAHAHAHAHA
posted by Cha-- @ 11:08 AM
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
Gong Xi Fa Chai
The Dragon personality The Dragon is a creature of myth and legend. A symbol of good fortune and sign of intense power, the Oriental Dragon is regarded as a divine beast - the reverse of the malicious monster that Westerners felt necessary to find and slay. In Eastern philosophy, the Dragon is said to be a deliverer of good fortune and a master of authority. Therefore, those people born in Dragon years are to be honored and respected.
THE SIGN OF THE DRAGON
The key to the Dragon personality is that Dragons are the free spirits of the Zodiac. Conformation is a Dragon's curse. Rules and regulations are made for other people. Restrictions blow out the creative spark that is ready to flame into life. Dragons must be free and uninhibited. The Dragon is a beautiful creature, colorful and flamboyant. An extroverted bundle of energy, gifted and utterly irrepressible, everything Dragons do is on a grand scale - big ideas, ornate gestures, extreme ambitions. However, this behavior is natural and isn't meant for show. Because they are confident, fearless in the face of challenge, they are almost inevitably successful. Dragons usually make it to the top. However, Dragon people be aware of their natures. Too much enthusiasm can leave them tired and unfulfilled. Even though they are willing to aid when necessary, their pride can often impede them from accepting the same kind of help from others. Dragons' generous personalities give them the ability to attract friends, but they can be rather solitary people at heart. A Dragon's self-sufficiency can mean that he or she has no need for close bonds with other people.
THE FIRE DRAGON 1916 AND 1976
The Fire Dragon is a powerful force to be reckoned with. This is a Dragon doubled! The Fire Dragon can move from calm and collected to combustible in a matter of seconds. In some ways the Fire Dragon is his or her own worst enemy. These Dragons cannot help feeling they are valuable and all-knowing. When they are right their vehemence and vigor is an asset to the cause, and though they value objectivity, they do not always employ the best decision-making measures, and sometimes jump to the wrong conclusion. They also suffer from recklessness and quick tempers. Yet, when they do keep their temper, emotions, and rivaling spirit under control, they emanate a commanding influence on other people.
posted by Cha-- @ 11:52 PM
Monday, February 07, 2005
To be brave is to love someone unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. To just give. That takes courage, because we don't want to fall on our faces or leave ourselves open to hurt --- (Madonna--O'Magazine, January 2004).
Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
Have a nice dinner with Risky at Grand Lux Cafe... It seems that we had a-very-early Valentine's Candle Lite Dinner... 'coz since the Valentine's day itself will be on Monday, so we might-could-maybe-dunnoityet not have "the candle lite dinner" for unconditional circumstances *sigh*
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY in advance guys.... :=)posted by Cha-- @ 2:42 PM
Wednesday, February 02, 2005
Happy Birthday to Kismet Argopradipto
Ultah yg ke 30... (tuaaa ihhh....) hahahaha
Kismet yg gue kenal blm ada setahun ini... is a very wise person, a very understanding, very helpful, very nice, tempat curhat gue dikala senang, dikala sedih, dikala lg gundah gulana, dikala gue lg butuh tempat numpahin smua2nya... ya di dia ini lah... hehehe his advise pasti slalu berlandaskan alkitab which is a very strong way to cheer me up....
You may see
Kismet from the picture, he's the one in the very front (in the right-below-corner) with the blue shirt... wish you all the best bro !!
posted by Cha-- @ 2:26 PM
